Pupil Wellbeing

Wellbeing is not a given in life and is something that needs to be worked on as much as physical health. Felsted’s holistic approach to mental health challenges is to look at the needs of everyone within the broader school community.

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We want to deliver well-adjusted young people who are happy; happy in themselves, happy in their relationships with one another, and happy with who they are, ready to go out
and face the world. And that is why wellbeing matters at Felsted.
Chris Townsend, Headmaster

Felsted’s holistic approach to mental health is to support and promote the wellbeing and good mental health of all those in our community, including pupils, staff and parents. We aim to create a culture of awareness of mental health needs, with no stigma or discrimination, providing high quality mental health training for all.  Wellbeing is not a  given in life and is something that needs to be worked on as much as physical health.

Felsted puts pupil wellbeing at the heart of everything we do and we have long had a range of strategies to help pupils negotiate the pressure of growing up and being an adolescent in the changing modern world. 

We teach all our pupils, from the youngest years, the importance of mental health, whether it be through PSHE (Personal, Social, Health and Economic) lessons, peer counselling, yoga or mindfulness lessons. It forms an integral part of our pastoral care offering with all our staff equipped to understand and look out for the mental wellbeing of their pupils, whether in the boarding houses, classrooms, at lunch or in co-curricular activities.

A massive support network  underpins our care for each child, which includes a house parent,  tutor, teachers, matron, chaplain,  peer counsellors, house and school prefects plus an in-house Wellbeing Centre and Counselling Service.

I understand the Wellbeing Centre is a place I can go to if I need some sanctuary and also that I can seek help if I feel I need it.
Year 12 pupil

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Located in the heart of our school is our Wellbeing Centre, a calming hub where all members of the Felsted community can seek respite and access resources to support their mental health. The decor is natural, the furniture comfortable and the atmosphere calming, with a focus on a sensory experience. All pupils are introduced to the Wellbeing Centre through their PSHE lessons and activities associated with wellbeing, such as mindfulness,  meditation, yoga and pilates. 

The Centre is a shared facility across both our Senior School and Prep School, caring for over 1000 pupils, 300 staff and parents.

Felsted has taken a lead in this area, showing children that it is absolutely okay to seek support for their mental wellbeing. Pupils have an on site Medical Centre to go to for their bumps and bruises, now they have a Wellbeing Centre for their mental health.
Felsted parent

Our Wellbeing Services

1. Prevention

AS tracking

AS (Affective Social) Tracking is a bi-annual online assessment completed by our pupils from Year 7, which builds an emerging social and emotional narrative for each pupil. In many ways, this mirrors our academic tracking processes; each  pupil’s academic development is tracked so that we can target academic support and challenge.  In tracking pupils’ emerging social and emotional development, we can further target our pastoral support and challenge.

AS Tracking makes visible each pupil’s voice, perhaps revealing what we may not have seen through our interactions, professional judgement and relationships with our pupils. Pupils’ emerging AS Tracking narrative sits alongside and adds toour existing pastoral processes; it does not replace them. Pupil data guides our pastoral staff in targeting the particular experiences, opportunities and messages that would most benefit individual pupils. 

Further information about AS Tracking can be found here.

Mental Health First Aid Training

Taught from Year 1, the foundation of PSHE is built around developing emotional intelligence and resilience. Skills for good mental health are covered, including a focus on the practice of mindfulness, supporting pupils to stay calm and focused, 
particularly important during their exam years. 

Personal, Social and Health Education (PSHE)
PSHE is taught from Reception, with its foundation built around developing emotional intelligence and resilience. Skills for good mental health are covered, including a focus on the practice of mindfulness which is particularly useful for pupils to stay calm and focused during their important exam years. Mindfulness techniques are introduced to children from an early age in the Prep School and is often used by teachers at the beginning of lessons to refocus their pupils during a busy school day.

Peer Counselling
Year 12 pupils may volunteer to become peer counsellors, receiving training on MHFA, sexual health, 
substance misuse and digital safety. This means that they can be effective in supporting younger pupils with a range of issues. 

2. Counselling

When a child or young person is in distress and needing support, there are a range of different techniques our counsellors may use. We firmly believe that everybody has it  in their power to heal themselves and this can be done using  creative therapies such as art, sand play or play therapy. These gentle and non-threatening methods allow each young person to work through what is troubling them at a very deep level. This is especially suitable for the very young or for those who find verbalising their feelings very difficult and they usually find it great fun! 

Many young people just want somebody with whom to talk things through so that they can develop new coping strategies to help them build their resilience.  For these, we offer the traditional ‘talking therapy’ type of approach. 

The Wellbeing Centre is home to our in-school Counselling Service, where we have three experienced members of staff available. We are also able to call on the services of a CBT therapist, consultant psychotherapist and a family therapist when necessary. These specialists come to school to provide their services and work closely with the wellbeing team and parents. All sessions take place in our purpose-built counselling rooms.

Our senior pupils are able to ask  for counselling directly and in confidence, although they will always be encouraged to talk to their parents. Counselling for Prep School pupils is provided after consultation with parents. We offer six sessions free of charge, which is usually enough for most of our pupils. However, it is possible to offer long term work for those who need more; the cost of subsequent sessions can be  added to the school bill with parental permission.

Future developments will see all Felsted teachers trained in Mental Health First Aid, and a range of external speakers will be scheduled to deliver key messages for our pupils and staff. The care of each and every person in our school community remains the priority for Felsted. 

Mental Health First Aid Courses

Felsted offers regular Mental Health First Aid training courses for students, teachers and carers.

For more information on any upcoming events please click here.

Children are really taking advantage of the easy access counselling support which aims to provide fast and accessible intervention to prevent any on-going distress
and long term problems.
Mrs Karen Megahey, Deputy Head, Counselling & Wellbeing, MBACP (Accred)

The wellbeing centre is genius and ahead of the game in education. Wellbeing is core to personal success in many ways and will continue to be even more important in life after school. I am confident that my child will be looked after when they are not at home.


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